Premature Ejaculation

[Bcordell]

OK, here is my story in a nutshell. My husband and I have been married now for 7 years. There is an 11 year age difference in him and I. Since we have been married, he has suffered from rapid ejaculation. And when I say "rapid" I mean RAPID! I have never had an orgasm since being with him. This is extremely frustrating to me. I have talked to him several times about this problem and he has basically laughed it off. I have gone to the extreme where I have told him I was going to have to go elsewhere to get mine if he didn't do something. I have bought creams that are suppose to help. All I got from those was a one time experience that lasted 12 whole minutes. And that wasn't even enjoyable. He kept asking me how long it had been. Nothing like making love to your husband while watching the clock! Of course I could never go elsewhere. But I thought that might get his attention so he might be more willing to get some help. Back in July, he finally went to his dr and got put on an antidepressant. But what should have lasted him for one month, he hasn't even finished taking the medication. We have tried the stop and go method, but this too does not work. He doesn't have a problem getting an erection, he just ejaculations way too fast. And what really upsets me is he just laughs about it. Sex to me is a HUGE thing. I find myself masturbating alone. But honestly, I need a man. It's just not the same. Does anyone have any advice to give me. I am at the end of my rope and not sure how much longer I can continue to go without an orgasm. Anyone with any advice?

Thanks so much!