Menopause

[Ramment]

Since menopause I have started experiencing pain during menopause I have applied lubricants and have had an oral exam. My Dr. does not seem to have an explanation but it is VERY uncomfortable and my husband feels bad that he is hurting me. Anyone else have this problem? Suggestions?

[Boxmaker]

Increasing vaginal dryness is common. While you had an exam that suggested everything is okay, did you specifically ask about your problem? Otherwise, your doctor would not think to address it because your exam probably indicated everything is as it should be for a menopausal woman!

One suggestion is to seek an Ob/Gyn who specializes in menopause. There are physicians whose medical expertise is in menopause and they probably can come up with a lot of helpful suggestions. You also may want to ask your physician about estrogen treatments that can be applied locally -- for example, estrogen cream or an inserted estrogen ring. That may relieve some of the symptoms (although an estrogen ring can also trigger daily vaginal discharge, just as when you were menstruating). Something quick and easy to try is a better vaginal lubricant. If you've relied on KY Jelly or the like, try a lubricant like "Astroglide" which most drug stores carry. Not so goopy and more lubricating. Hope this helps!