Erectile Dysfunction

[katapillar]

I have been w/my boyfriend for about 6 months. Before we got together, he said he used to have hard ons that lasted for hours, and it would take forever for him to "finish". However, it had been 3-1/2 yrs since he had sex prior to our first time together.
Since he and I have been together, he has had a problem sustaining an erection. It has been very difficult for our relationship. He has a great deal of interest in being physical, but we can only rarely really make love, for which I have a hard time feeling the emotional and psychological connection with him.
Any advice?

[Piano]

If he genuinely has had no erections for 3-1/2 years, chances are things have atrophied somewhat down there. So it is likely he will need some practise to bring his skills back. If he wants to be physical, maybe you can persuade him to satisfy you orally or manually until things start to return.

ED is a common problem, for which there can be many causes. If things don't improve, get him to see a doctor or urologist. There are many treatments available.

I have total ED -- no natural erections at all. But with treatment, it is still possible to have a great sex life -- and that means great for both partners.