Erectile Dysfunction

[eagle08]

Hello, I'm a new member, I have ED and nothing seems to work. I have tried all the pills available and although some seem to work a little, I'm still not able to perform as I would like. I'm 58, have had rheumatoid arthritis for 40 years and have had 5 hip replacements and 3 knee replacements so I suppose there is a good reason for having ED. I'm still not yet ready to shut the door at having sex with my wife. I'm seeing a urologist but he just doesn't seem to be aggressive enough in treating my ED. I would appreciate any advice anyone could send my way. Thank you so much, Don

[tabbygal]

Hi, Don, I am new here too.
I wish there was something I could say to help you in your journey, but i will send along blessings for peace and healing for you and your wife. Even tho you may not be able to express your love for her in that certain physical way, there are others. Have you investigated them?
I believe that a deep emotional love for someone is way more fulfilling than a physical sense.
Best wishes to you and your wife.....
Tabs

[BJD]

Hello Don;
I'm also new to the forum I have the same problem with ED, I can't seem to perform with my wife as I would like, she keeps telling me that sex is not that important to her, however every now and then I could sense and see the pain in her eyes about not being intemate. The mor I dwell on this matter the worse it gets, I'm 56 and having had back surgery the procedure seemed to damage my nerves and ever sense I just can't seem to get a erection. The medications that the doctors put me on is Oxycodone 80MG and Roxicodone 30MG I have been taking these for pain for the last 6 years, my ED just put me out of action, my wifeis young she is 46 its been difficult and I slumpped into a depression because of this, I am going to see a urologist on monday, the only thing that I'm doing and its difficult is keep telling her that I love her and care for her. If I find myself dwelling I fall into a depression so bad that it hurts her and myself, dwelling on the problem will make it worst just keep telling her that you love and care for her every day, enjoy and appriciate her ever moment. I will keep you in my prayers gods speed to both you and your wife, its difficult and painfull for both. It seems at least to me the harder I try the worse it gets and hurts everyone around us. Let go and let god into this difficult time in your life.
BJD