Erectile Dysfunction

[ohbitchin]

Alright, so I am 16 years old and just recently started "trying" to have sex with a friend. I have never been more attracted to a girl in my life and I can get an erection for her whenever I am kissing her or even just when I am close to her, but as soon as we try to have sex, it is gone. It seems to be as soon as I try to put on a condom that I lose it. I don't know what the deal is. I don't think that it is nerves because I am totally comfortable around her, I don't know what it is. It has happened 4 out of 4 times now. Twice we have started to have sex and then I lose it not far into it and even when we are having sex it doesn't do much for me. I can get an erection no problem when I am masturbating, but as soon as I try to have sex, it doesn't work out. I don't get it, you would think at 16 years old my problem would be more along the lines of premature ejaculation, but this won't stop happening. I am also in good shape and take very good care of myself (I am going to be competing in bodybuilding at some point), so my testosterone levels are also very high right now. Also, I am uncircumcised. I doubt that would have anything to do with it, but who knows. I am starting to get really depressed about it and I know that is only going to make it worse. If anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated. SOMEBODY HELP ME OUT HERE!!!
Thanks

[hound]

I'm circumcised, so I'm not sure, but I swear the problem is that your foreskin should be pulled back as part of the process. Check out the web for condom application instructions for "intact" members - you're supposed to pull the foreskin back and expose the head prior to applying the condom. I found that condoms sort of desensitized me, too, until I started using lube on "my" side - make sure it's KY or other water-based - so that the condom, at least at the head end, could slide somewhat and provide some friction. Be sure to leave extra room at the tip (pinching the extra to avoid any air pocket), which you're supposed to do to prevent breakage, anyway. Sometimes condoms take a minute or so to warm up during sex, so you just have to rid yourself of thoughts of failure and keep at it until it starts feeling like something. You might want to try larger-sized condoms, or "inspiral" types w/loose fit at the business end. Even the slightest friction will do the trick - it's the stuck-like-glue situation that's a bummer.